User blog:Logo12/Random rant: User element in real life

Just had a random talk at school today, but it had stroke through one familiar topic: the 4 different elements (or ways to react to pressure). Just like the 4 elements, it includes an aggressive element, a weak element, an intelligent element, an unexpected element. The only different thing is that the user elements focuses on managing and debating, while this focuses on pressure managing.

BLAMING (Fire)
Like FIRE, whenever one faces a problem, one will quickly burst it out on OTHERS as a way to gain comfortability. Ignores OTHERS' emotion, and cares more about SELF's emotion. Just congruent to FIRE anyways.

PLACANT (Water)
Again, corresponding to WATER, whenever one faces a problem, one will plead for OTHERS and thinks that oneself was always the wrong. Relies on OTHERS to gain comfortability, and ignores SLEF's emotion.

SUPER-REASONABLE (Earth)
Like EARTH, one follows only according to the rules, and ignores SELF and OTHERS' emotion, while the "rules" are their comfortability and confidence.

IRRELEVANT (Lightning?)
This one is not quite... fitting. But if one is being irrelevant, self-explanationarily, it will do anything against the CASE, while also ignoring SELF and OTHERS' emotion. As it is said to be "unexpected", I think it somehow suits LIGHTNING.

And... that's all. If you are familiar with these terms (or definitions), you should know this comes from Virginia Satir, on a family therapy thingy.