User blog:Meta07/Kindness and Ignorance

From what I'm seeing, you guys, especially the managers, have mistaken Kindness for Ignorance, and thus some troubles (mostly concerning Bramble and Redsmellybroc) have come from it. I'll state what's the problem here. First, I'll talk about Kindness:

Kindness
In my own opinion, kindness is when you're:


 * Ready to forgive people for their faults unreluctantly


 * Always give them more chances to prove themselves


 *  Do anything you can to make people feel and act better 

So, you see, I've always told you to try to be kind to people, but Kindness actually takes a lot of care, you actually have to take actions a lot and try to think of ways to make each and every individual behave better. I and Love Robin-sama can always help you with this if you consult us. However, most of the time, you fell into

Ignorance
Ignorance is when you just don't care or not take serious action on something. So, what I see is this: you've given people like Bramble and Redsmellybroc a lot of "minor warnings", but don't really do anything aside from that. You always forgive them, but your forgiveness only gives them chances to cause more trouble. Here, I'll state 2 scenarios: So, that's all what I want to say for now, please comment if you have any thoughts on this, and I'd be pleased to consider them, thank you.
 * Try actually think of some plan to make them behave better (see Kindness above). If they listen to you and at least try, or even just tell you that they're trying, then keep on with it
 * However, if they don't give a single sign of listening to you, and/or if they can't even make a senseful statement, in short, if they make you feel like you're just talking to nothing, and cause more chaos as if nothing happened, then take serious actions immediately, don't wait and drag it on, you'll just waste time, and make the wiki more chaotic.